Infidelity tests now a common affair
Neha Bhayana | TOI-CREST EDITION
One morning last month,Dubai resident Raj Kanodia fished out a used bedsheet from the laundry basket while his wife was away.He then swiped his mouth with a cotton bud to collect saliva,sealed it in an envelope,and couriered it to a Hyderabad laboratory along with the used bed linen.
A week later,the 34-yearold got his answer.As I suspected,the stain on the bedsheet was indeed semen.And the DNA did not match mine, he says.Kanodia,who has been married for two years,was hurt but is still glad he ordered the test.If I hadnt,I would have been nagged by doubt, says the former Delhi resident,adding that he confronted his wife and they are still trying to work things out.
The test was life-altering for Kanodia,but at the laboratoryOne Touch Solutions and Services (OTS)it was a routine infidelity test.The lab gets at least two to three such requests a month,mostly from young,married men.
Though the infidelity test,which is popular abroad,is relatively new to India,demand for it has been increasing,says Ritu Sohaney,a DNA test consultant at OTS.
The lab gets used condoms,cigarette butts,underwear,waxing strips,tongue cleaners,earbuds,nails and blood-stained bedsheets for testing,she adds.
The Indian Biosciences Laboratory in Gurgaon also receives four to five enquiries every month from young people who want to know how they can nail their cheating spouses.The company charges Rs 27,920 to test one suspicious object.
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Friday, July 29, 2011
Wednesday, July 27, 2011
Very very good article by Mellissaji ... relationship Bombay Times..28 July 2011
Learned a lot about practical outlook about keeping or dumping relationship, and what is not important in relationship. Read carefully point no.8 and get true meaning. Persons as described in point 8 are very clear. Such persons can not be cured even by top of the line doctors,psychiatrists,counselors,they dont believe,they dont believe in morality and if any lay person thinks he/ she can change such a person then not even god can save him or her....Alok
Love between the lines
10 false notions that romantic novels encourage
1 Every relationship ends with a happily ever after:
While a romance novel may end on a happy note,life is a different story with ups and downs that you have to deal with.
2 All romantic heroes are tall,dark and handsome:
This myth is slowly changing even in romance novels but it still exists at the back of our minds.All romantic heroines are beautiful,proportionate,curvy with a beautiful complexion.Romance is not only about the physical attributes.It's more about connecting with the person and sharing a comfort level.Keep in mind that no one is perfect.
3 Grand expensive gestures are the best way to express love:
Learn to pay attention to the little things.You dont always need expensive declarations of love to know that someone cares for you.
4 Condoms are barriers between you and your loved one:
Love making scenes in romance novels are not always a reflection of reality,and while the protagonist of a romance novel can afford to risk things,can you
5 Relationships are easy and things automatically fall into place:
You have to work on your relationship,no matter how perfect things may seem.
6 You will always find happiness with Mr Money Bags:
Financial security is not a guarantee of everlasting happiness.It can make things easy for you but is not the only basis for a good relationship.
7 Forcing you to do something you are not comfortable with in the bedroom is a hint of uncontrolled passion:
When an individual says no,we should respect that and no matter how passionate you feel you cant force yourself on someone.
8 Drug addicts,abusers,alcoholics,skirt chasers can all be reformed with love:
While people change its important to be realistic because relationships are hard.Taking on the responsibility of an addict or an alcoholic demands a lot from you as a person.So,ask yourself are you secure enough to deal with the situations that you may encounter.
9 Candlelight dinners,flowers,expensive gifts and trips are the only way to romance your loved one:
Love is not about extravagant gifts or candelight dinners.Its about caring for each other and being there always.
10 Follow your heart no matter what,even when things sound stupid and absurd:
Have a balance when it comes to making decisions.Listen to your heart and mind,so that you strike a balance between logic and emotions.
melissa.dcosta@timesgroup.com
10 false notions that romantic novels encourage
1 Every relationship ends with a happily ever after:
While a romance novel may end on a happy note,life is a different story with ups and downs that you have to deal with.
2 All romantic heroes are tall,dark and handsome:
This myth is slowly changing even in romance novels but it still exists at the back of our minds.All romantic heroines are beautiful,proportionate,curvy with a beautiful complexion.Romance is not only about the physical attributes.It's more about connecting with the person and sharing a comfort level.Keep in mind that no one is perfect.
3 Grand expensive gestures are the best way to express love:
Learn to pay attention to the little things.You dont always need expensive declarations of love to know that someone cares for you.
4 Condoms are barriers between you and your loved one:
Love making scenes in romance novels are not always a reflection of reality,and while the protagonist of a romance novel can afford to risk things,can you
5 Relationships are easy and things automatically fall into place:
You have to work on your relationship,no matter how perfect things may seem.
6 You will always find happiness with Mr Money Bags:
Financial security is not a guarantee of everlasting happiness.It can make things easy for you but is not the only basis for a good relationship.
7 Forcing you to do something you are not comfortable with in the bedroom is a hint of uncontrolled passion:
When an individual says no,we should respect that and no matter how passionate you feel you cant force yourself on someone.
8 Drug addicts,abusers,alcoholics,skirt chasers can all be reformed with love:
While people change its important to be realistic because relationships are hard.Taking on the responsibility of an addict or an alcoholic demands a lot from you as a person.So,ask yourself are you secure enough to deal with the situations that you may encounter.
9 Candlelight dinners,flowers,expensive gifts and trips are the only way to romance your loved one:
Love is not about extravagant gifts or candelight dinners.Its about caring for each other and being there always.
10 Follow your heart no matter what,even when things sound stupid and absurd:
Have a balance when it comes to making decisions.Listen to your heart and mind,so that you strike a balance between logic and emotions.
melissa.dcosta@timesgroup.com
Thursday, June 23, 2011
Court refuses to grant stay on adultery trial Page 7, TOI, Mumbai June 24, 2011
g There are many who think that we can live the way we like. But no....there are some laws, civil society framework , disciplines etc etc.. Since they are ignorant they cross the limit and then suffer. These type of news, my mails, blogs, yahoogroups are only meant for creating awareness and making one responsible and aware citizen.Though ignorance of law and changing norms in society are no defense in court and law is supreme till amended. Read carefully..........Alok
http://epaper.timesofindia.com/Default/Scripting/ArticleWin.asp?From=Archive&Source=Page&Skin=TOINEW&BaseHref=TOIM%2F2011%2F06%2F24&ViewMode=GIF&PageLabel=9&EntityId=Ar00901&AppName=1
Mumbai: The Bombay High Court on Thursday said that there was no stay on the trial in a complaint filed against a man for allegedly having adulterous relationship with a married woman pending a challenge raised by him to the constitutional validity of the penal provisions against adultery under Indian law.
The bench of Justice B H Marlapalle and Justice U D Salvi came down heavily on the petitioner and said “if somebody wants free sex, then first release themselves from the institution of marriage. If such acts are allowed, then there would be no civil society,” the judges said.
The section needs to be amended to bring women under the purview, the judges said. “Under personal law, both the spouses are punished.”
The judges observed that adultery was an “offence against the institution of marriage”. “In fact, the reading of the Section and the concerned chapter of Indian Penal Code, this is the only offence which is compoundable. Nowhere in the world is this accepted.”
The court accepted arguments made by advocate Vibhav Krishna for the complainant, Sundeep Singapuri, that the trial cannot be stalled. The court had earlier sought the presence of additional solicitor general who represented the central government in the matter given the graveness of the challenge. The accused, a reputed businessman, had earlier argued through his counsel Nitin Pradhan that he would be affected if the trial continued and he later succeeded in the petition. He also argued that in a changed society, such norms could not bind relationships.
The next date for trial is July 5 at the Dadar metropolitan court.
http://epaper.timesofindia.com/Default/Scripting/ArticleWin.asp?From=Archive&Source=Page&Skin=TOINEW&BaseHref=TOIM%2F2011%2F06%2F24&ViewMode=GIF&PageLabel=9&EntityId=Ar00901&AppName=1
Court refuses to grant stay on adultery trial
Swati Deshpande TNN
Mumbai: The Bombay High Court on Thursday said that there was no stay on the trial in a complaint filed against a man for allegedly having adulterous relationship with a married woman pending a challenge raised by him to the constitutional validity of the penal provisions against adultery under Indian law.
The bench of Justice B H Marlapalle and Justice U D Salvi came down heavily on the petitioner and said “if somebody wants free sex, then first release themselves from the institution of marriage. If such acts are allowed, then there would be no civil society,” the judges said.
The section needs to be amended to bring women under the purview, the judges said. “Under personal law, both the spouses are punished.”
The judges observed that adultery was an “offence against the institution of marriage”. “In fact, the reading of the Section and the concerned chapter of Indian Penal Code, this is the only offence which is compoundable. Nowhere in the world is this accepted.”
The court accepted arguments made by advocate Vibhav Krishna for the complainant, Sundeep Singapuri, that the trial cannot be stalled. The court had earlier sought the presence of additional solicitor general who represented the central government in the matter given the graveness of the challenge. The accused, a reputed businessman, had earlier argued through his counsel Nitin Pradhan that he would be affected if the trial continued and he later succeeded in the petition. He also argued that in a changed society, such norms could not bind relationships.
The next date for trial is July 5 at the Dadar metropolitan court.
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