And again that is a vast field so reaching out to a right person is another mammoth job.One should /atleast his family doctor should know whether the case is psychogenic or organic. If organic then whether he needs sex educator ,urologist, Andrologist,endocrinologist, Gynecologist or so on. Many a times a most complex problem can be solved thru education like of dryness,pain, early ejaculation, most others can go for Sildenafil citerate ( popularly known as Viagra), others may need injections, HRT, pumps, implants and so on.
Electronic media can do a lot to improve situation and make people educated/ informed. Now a days unsatisfied relationship can result is divorce, gennext does not believing in life long quite suffering. So wake up U , u and u all be it individuals, institutions, NGO's, Govt bodies, media and all others including WHO/UNO.
Like we celebrate Diabetes day, heart day and so on lets have sex education day or happy physical relationship day or name it in any flowery way.
The Secrets of Sex Therapy
What really happens behind closed doors when a couple goes to a sex therapist's office?
By Tracey Minkin
WebMD the Magazine - FeatureReviewed by Louanne Cole Weston, PhDShe (we'll call her Janice, age 41) was unhappy with her husband (we'll call him Pat, 42). After several years of his inability to sustain an erection, she started blaming herself and lost confidence in her sexual appeal. She began to doubt the value of their marriage and decided to see a sex therapist for counsel.
After her first few sessions with Rhode Island-based certified sexologist and sexuality educator Megan Andelloux, BS, Janice gained the courage to ask Pat to see a doctor to rule out a medical condition. That turned out to be the case: He had weight issues that were affecting blood flow (which can cause erectile dysfunction). At Andelloux's suggestion, the couple began to explore intimacy not based solely on erections, while Pat worked to lose weight and improve his overall health. For Janice and Pat, it was a new beginning. For Andelloux, it was another day at the office.
Which raises the question: Just what goes on behind the doors of a certified sexologist?
Sex Therapy, Talk Therapy
While any title that contains the word sex may sound provocative, what happens in the offices of certified sex educators, counselors, and therapists is all about talk, much like any other form of therapy and counseling. "We are not allowed to touch our clients, nor would we consider doing so," Andelloux says. "No sex ever takes place in a sex therapist's office."
Her office is a venue for clients struggling with any range of sexual issues to feel completely safe and candid in discussing and working on these problems. "It could be about two people having different levels of desire," she says. "We see everything from couples dealing with aging and changes in sexual functioning, to women dealing with rape trauma in their sex lives, to men being concerned and ashamed about the content of their fantasies. It's a large range."
'Purposeful Touch'
As a sex educator, Andelloux's work focuses on far-ranging conversations about sex and sexuality, including a typical technique in traditional therapists' offices: homework. For couples having trouble with intimacy (a common problem), Andelloux may prescribe what's called purposeful touch. "I might advise 10 minutes a day of touching one's partner that doesn't lead to sex," she says.
For Janice and Pat, the homework goes on. "They're still together," Andelloux says. "He's lost weight and gained confidence, and they're working on their sex lives as well as their marriage." It was a good day at the office.
What Is a Sex Therapist?
What leads a couple to a sex therapist?
Most begin dealing with relationship issues in traditional therapy settings, with marriage counselors or therapists, Andelloux says.
But sometimes this professional may not be educated in a range of issues regarding sexuality, so a referral is in order. Here's how sex therapists learn their craft:
Added knowledge. While trained therapists such as those with a master's degree in social work, or MSWs, receive a number of hours of sexuality training in their overall education, accredited sex therapists build on already-existing backgrounds in social work, medicine, psychology, or specific graduate work in sexuality.
Extra hours. The American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists, the field's central body of oversight and accreditation, requires 90 hours of graduate-level coursework, plus supervised clinical hours.
Dr. Anand Jhawar
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What really happens behind closed doors when a couple goes to a sex therapist's office?
By Tracey Minkin
WebMD the Magazine - FeatureReviewed by Louanne Cole Weston, PhDShe (we'll call her Janice, age 41) was unhappy with her husband (we'll call him Pat, 42). After several years of his inability to sustain an erection, she started blaming herself and lost confidence in her sexual appeal. She began to doubt the value of their marriage and decided to see a sex therapist for counsel.
After her first few sessions with Rhode Island-based certified sexologist and sexuality educator Megan Andelloux, BS, Janice gained the courage to ask Pat to see a doctor to rule out a medical condition. That turned out to be the case: He had weight issues that were affecting blood flow (which can cause erectile dysfunction). At Andelloux's suggestion, the couple began to explore intimacy not based solely on erections, while Pat worked to lose weight and improve his overall health. For Janice and Pat, it was a new beginning. For Andelloux, it was another day at the office.
Which raises the question: Just what goes on behind the doors of a certified sexologist?
Sex Therapy, Talk Therapy
While any title that contains the word sex may sound provocative, what happens in the offices of certified sex educators, counselors, and therapists is all about talk, much like any other form of therapy and counseling. "We are not allowed to touch our clients, nor would we consider doing so," Andelloux says. "No sex ever takes place in a sex therapist's office."
Her office is a venue for clients struggling with any range of sexual issues to feel completely safe and candid in discussing and working on these problems. "It could be about two people having different levels of desire," she says. "We see everything from couples dealing with aging and changes in sexual functioning, to women dealing with rape trauma in their sex lives, to men being concerned and ashamed about the content of their fantasies. It's a large range."
'Purposeful Touch'
As a sex educator, Andelloux's work focuses on far-ranging conversations about sex and sexuality, including a typical technique in traditional therapists' offices: homework. For couples having trouble with intimacy (a common problem), Andelloux may prescribe what's called purposeful touch. "I might advise 10 minutes a day of touching one's partner that doesn't lead to sex," she says.
For Janice and Pat, the homework goes on. "They're still together," Andelloux says. "He's lost weight and gained confidence, and they're working on their sex lives as well as their marriage." It was a good day at the office.
What Is a Sex Therapist?
What leads a couple to a sex therapist?
Most begin dealing with relationship issues in traditional therapy settings, with marriage counselors or therapists, Andelloux says.
But sometimes this professional may not be educated in a range of issues regarding sexuality, so a referral is in order. Here's how sex therapists learn their craft:
Added knowledge. While trained therapists such as those with a master's degree in social work, or MSWs, receive a number of hours of sexuality training in their overall education, accredited sex therapists build on already-existing backgrounds in social work, medicine, psychology, or specific graduate work in sexuality.
Extra hours. The American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists, the field's central body of oversight and accreditation, requires 90 hours of graduate-level coursework, plus supervised clinical hours.
Dr. Anand Jhawar
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