Doubting spouse ???? my relpy to querist

Whether it is hubby or anyone in family the suspician can ruin relationship. So while he has to improve but so also you have to build your image before him. One has to build confidence of spouse to remain united. The personal callers at odd hours , during week days are all nuisance for any one unless they are very close to whole family. So it is oness duty to introduce callers, they must meet each other. They must develop liking for each other and so the suspician will go. But if there is a person specially of opposite s*x who keeps relation only with individual and not with family is creating problem for that spouse and spouse will be doubted. To my mind there is no personal thing in family. A reasonable space is given but inspite of that one must be like open book and must instill a confidence in family by their doings and specially husband and wife must be one and set an example for their children of their good behaviour and character.
Anything less then that can create havoc in family life leading to .....and finally divorce.

Nina Rakheja Nina Rakheja [ Scorecard : 70] PRO CHAT CALL 1 2 3 4 5 Thank Contributor : Send PM Posted about 10 hours ago I am living my hubby.My hubby always check my mobile at night when I sleep and fight with me if he finds any male calling me.My colleagues call me and talks with me, does it amount to adultary.hubby has threatened me of filing adultary case on all my male friends.Please help me how to stop this.. Anmol Sharma advocate [ Scorecard : 269] PRO CHAT CALL 1 2 3 4 5 Thank Contributor : Send PM Posted about 10 hours ago how can this be adultery.. Sunny Other [ Scorecard : 102] PRO CHAT CALL 1 2 3 4 5 Thank Contributor : Send PM Posted about 10 hours ago Yes this can be termed as adultery since you're interacting with other males without the approval of your husband. In the eyes of the law, the wife is the husband's property after marriage and you have to take permission from him to go to your natal home and to interact with other males. There can be no "friendship" between male and female, it has been proven in very recent studies by British scientists too. Most of these friendships are s*xual attractions and they usually end up having some form of s*xual behavior even if its not full fleged s*x. So if you want to save your marriage and avoid being branded as an adulterous wife in public, please stop whatever you're doing with other males and focus on your husband. I'm sure this is what you want him to do as well right? Message Thanked by (Total thanks : 2) ZeeshanTajobsindia Gunjan HR [ Scorecard : 123] PRO CHAT CALL 1 2 3 4 5 Thank Contributor : Send PM Posted about 5 hours ago which hubby .....2nd one ., 5th one or ganja ?? adv. rajeev ( rajoo ) practicing advocate [ Scorecard : 30345] PRO CHAT CALL 1 2 3 4 5 Thank Contributor : Send PM Posted about 3 hours ago talking with your collegues is not an adultery. To prove the adultery grounds it requires strong evidence. Alok Tholiya self employed [ Scorecard : 585] [edit] [edit photo] Posted 5 minutes ago Whether it is hubby or anyone in family the suspician can ruin relationship. So while he has to improve but so also you have to build your image before him. One has to build confidence of spouse to remain united. The personal callers at odd hours , during week days are all nuisance for any one unless they are very close to whole family. So it is oness duty to introduce callers, they must meet each other. They must develop liking for each other and so the suspician will go. But if there is a person specially of opposite s*x who keeps relation only with individual and not with family is creating problem for that spouse and spouse will be doubted. To my mind there is no personal thing in family. A reasonable space is given but inspite of that one must be like open book and must instill a confidence in family by their doings and specially husband and wife must be one and set an example for their children of their good behaviour and character. Anything less then that can create havoc in family life leading to .....and finally divorce.