Learned a lot about practical outlook about keeping or dumping relationship, and what is not important in relationship. Read carefully point no.8 and get true meaning. Persons as described in point 8 are very clear. Such persons can not be cured even by top of the line doctors,psychiatrists,counselors,they dont believe,they dont believe in morality and if any lay person thinks he/ she can change such a person then not even god can save him or her....Alok
Love between the lines
10 false notions that romantic novels encourage
1 Every relationship ends with a happily ever after:
While a romance novel may end on a happy note,life is a different story with ups and downs that you have to deal with.
2 All romantic heroes are tall,dark and handsome:
This myth is slowly changing even in romance novels but it still exists at the back of our minds.All romantic heroines are beautiful,proportionate,curvy with a beautiful complexion.Romance is not only about the physical attributes.It's more about connecting with the person and sharing a comfort level.Keep in mind that no one is perfect.
3 Grand expensive gestures are the best way to express love:
Learn to pay attention to the little things.You dont always need expensive declarations of love to know that someone cares for you.
4 Condoms are barriers between you and your loved one:
Love making scenes in romance novels are not always a reflection of reality,and while the protagonist of a romance novel can afford to risk things,can you
5 Relationships are easy and things automatically fall into place:
You have to work on your relationship,no matter how perfect things may seem.
6 You will always find happiness with Mr Money Bags:
Financial security is not a guarantee of everlasting happiness.It can make things easy for you but is not the only basis for a good relationship.
7 Forcing you to do something you are not comfortable with in the bedroom is a hint of uncontrolled passion:
When an individual says no,we should respect that and no matter how passionate you feel you cant force yourself on someone.
8 Drug addicts,abusers,alcoholics,skirt chasers can all be reformed with love:
While people change its important to be realistic because relationships are hard.Taking on the responsibility of an addict or an alcoholic demands a lot from you as a person.So,ask yourself are you secure enough to deal with the situations that you may encounter.
9 Candlelight dinners,flowers,expensive gifts and trips are the only way to romance your loved one:
Love is not about extravagant gifts or candelight dinners.Its about caring for each other and being there always.
10 Follow your heart no matter what,even when things sound stupid and absurd:
Have a balance when it comes to making decisions.Listen to your heart and mind,so that you strike a balance between logic and emotions.
melissa.dcosta@timesgroup.com
10 false notions that romantic novels encourage
1 Every relationship ends with a happily ever after:
While a romance novel may end on a happy note,life is a different story with ups and downs that you have to deal with.
2 All romantic heroes are tall,dark and handsome:
This myth is slowly changing even in romance novels but it still exists at the back of our minds.All romantic heroines are beautiful,proportionate,curvy with a beautiful complexion.Romance is not only about the physical attributes.It's more about connecting with the person and sharing a comfort level.Keep in mind that no one is perfect.
3 Grand expensive gestures are the best way to express love:
Learn to pay attention to the little things.You dont always need expensive declarations of love to know that someone cares for you.
4 Condoms are barriers between you and your loved one:
Love making scenes in romance novels are not always a reflection of reality,and while the protagonist of a romance novel can afford to risk things,can you
5 Relationships are easy and things automatically fall into place:
You have to work on your relationship,no matter how perfect things may seem.
6 You will always find happiness with Mr Money Bags:
Financial security is not a guarantee of everlasting happiness.It can make things easy for you but is not the only basis for a good relationship.
7 Forcing you to do something you are not comfortable with in the bedroom is a hint of uncontrolled passion:
When an individual says no,we should respect that and no matter how passionate you feel you cant force yourself on someone.
8 Drug addicts,abusers,alcoholics,skirt chasers can all be reformed with love:
While people change its important to be realistic because relationships are hard.Taking on the responsibility of an addict or an alcoholic demands a lot from you as a person.So,ask yourself are you secure enough to deal with the situations that you may encounter.
9 Candlelight dinners,flowers,expensive gifts and trips are the only way to romance your loved one:
Love is not about extravagant gifts or candelight dinners.Its about caring for each other and being there always.
10 Follow your heart no matter what,even when things sound stupid and absurd:
Have a balance when it comes to making decisions.Listen to your heart and mind,so that you strike a balance between logic and emotions.
melissa.dcosta@timesgroup.com
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