Quiz: Bedroom Mistakes Women Make

There's nothing wrong with faking orgasms.

It might seem like a kindness to fake an orgasm -- if it makes your partner feel better, what's the problem? First, you're denying yourself pleasure -- that's a bad habit. Second, if you fake it, you're giving your partner the wrong impression. The stuff that your significant other thinks is working for you isn't working. Over time, reinforcing that wrong impression can lead to a not-so-satisfying sex life.

If your partner masturbates, it means the sex isn't that great.

Your partner masturbates. So what? It doesn't mean there's anything wrong with your sex life. It just means your partner's human. 91% of men under age 70 have masturbated and 76% of women -- and likely many more.

Masturbation has benefits, too: It relieves stress, helps with PMS pain in women, reduces early ejaculation in men, and may even help you sleep.

How many couples often climax at the same time?

• YOUR ANSWER: Less than 15%

If you're always trying for simultaneous orgasms, give yourself a break. For most couples, it's impossible to control. Trying just adds a level of pointless pressure -- and, usually, disappointment. It's tough to surrender to the moment if you're gauging your partner and your partner is gauging you. Instead, take turns so you can each give in and fully enjoy yourselves. Look at simultaneous orgasms as nice but rare thing, like seeing a shooting star or winning $5 on a scratch-off ticket.

Men think more often abt sex then women????

It's one of those clichés that seems to be true, at least according to research. One recent study found that on average, men think about sex twice as often as women do.

Of course, that doesn't mean that sex isn't important for women or that they don't think about it plenty. That same study showed that the average woman thinks about sex 10 times a day.

Men will have sex anytime, anywhere. 

A lot of women are surprised and maybe even dismayed when their partner doesn't feel in the mood. Don't jump to the conclusion that there's some deeper, underlying problem. You know what it's like not to feel like having sex. He may just be tired or having a bad day -- it happens to everyone. Try again later.

When it comes to sex, men tend to be more visual than women.

Another cliché that's backed up by scientific data. It’s not that women aren't visual, it's that they have more avenues to arousal. Men are likely to be turned on most by visual cues. If he really wants to do it with the lights on, or is always pestering you to wear lingerie, you may have biology to thank.

Should we discuss  work day each night when you go to bed.

Many couples don't have much time alone together during the week. Because of that, the few hours that they do have after work often get eaten up by practical discussions -- talking about work, the kids' upcoming birthday parties, and your budget for the next week. It's not exactly sexy.

To improve your love life, make a conscious decision to steer clear of stressful topics before and in bed. Yes, those things still need to be discussed, but try -- for instance -- getting them out of the way in an email exchange during the day.