Feel free to use delete button and relax .........or read this personal mail of mine..but always feel empowered

We and the people we deal with have developed their personality unknowingly suiting to needs, circumstances, forces of community, samaj, family, neighborhood, places we frequent like college, office, other groups etc etc.. But one day if we find that our life is becoming a burden on self / others, if it is giving more miseries to us and our fellows then it is time to have a relook. Time to change path. Time to say good bye to our such behavior which gives rise to sorrowful situation, change people who make ur life sorrowful or change environmnet u live in which disturbs ur life. Attending following series may help many but many others will keep suffering as they choose to not to change. Abt my mail which r not addressed to any one or group and are for general info. : It has become necessary to clarify that I have come much above my own world and my own people so my most mail are not meant for any individual / group or people I know. My general mails go to up to 50K recipients. Most do not react. Some send praises but many other send brickbats too. All r welcome. As said I have come above all that situations.I am unable to think narrowly for the benefit of my own alone so messages which r good for my people are good for others too so I circulate them to my capacity. But it is right of all to not be bothered by unnecessary mails but be it noise pollution, traffic,marketing calls sms or email and many other things in life are hardly in our hands. Do not crib on such things. At least in my case just write back to me in words (appropriate to ur personality) if u don't want my mails. But if I were u I wud just delete or give command that such mail goes in junk or if I am a busy person then make a folder "read when free" and programme that such mails go to that folder. Many may choose to fwd mails. Their wish. Also note that on advise of by many others I have started using BCC for individual recipients as same id's were picked up by others and misused ( may be that is how I have some of ur ids). So pl. do not think there is some crooked reason in using BCC. There r some balanced person who have criticized my particular mails but being balanced ( rational) they have also endorsed my views on other issues / praised my some other mail. And life is like that. Jainism's first big lesson is Ahinsa, truthfulness and second big lesson is Anekantwad. I never feel that others must like my view point but if they choose to debate then they must be sporting enough to read my counter reply. god save me from those who feel my mails are for them alone and that instead of writing back to me their dislike/ issues which I alone can clarify they go and discuss about my mails with others and get further frustrated. For them my advise is "Feel free to use delete button and relax and feel empowered. I do that to my 85% of mails in my inbox and it takes seconds or write back to the sender". ......Alok AND THOSE WHO WANT TO READ MORE FROM ME ; ONLY AUTHENTIC FREE MATRIMONIALS WEBSITE FOR DIGAMBAR JAINS: www.digambarjains.com/ For Issues of women in distress: http://womendignity.blogspot.com/ For Issues of Sr. citizens : http://varishthanagrik.blogspot.com/ Issues of Public interests : http://aloktholiya.blogspot.com/ http://tenantsoftholiyabhavn.blogspot.com/ For education funds : http://ngoandsociety.spaces.live.com/default.aspx Also subscribe to my very popular yahoo group for mails on ahead of time views: Send blank mail to: menow-subscribe@yahoogroups.com precious collections: http://beautifulwe.blogspot.com/