Tuesday, December 21, 2010

Active sex life must for healthy longevity.....TOI

An active sex life is the key to a longer life for men only if they are faithful to their partners, a new research has found.

Italian medical researchers have found that a healthy sex life means fewer cardiovascular problems for men.

"What was evident from the research was that men who had active sex lives and were faithful to their partners had fewer cardiovascular complaints and lived longer," the Telegraph quoted Emmanuele Jannini, coordinator of the research, as saying.

"Increased sexual activity produces more testosterone, which leads to less depression and a better cardiovascular performance which means an improved metabolism," said Jannini.

Jannini said the study has revealed that those who were unfaithful had a poor cardiovascular performance because they were "also coping with the increased stress of their infidelity."

She said that an increased amount of testosterone produced during sex was good for men because it burned off excess sugars and reduced the risk of heart disease.

"People who have diabetes especially benefit from a healthy sex life and an active sex life also helps avoid prostate problems for men," she added.

The Italian Society of Sexual Medicine carried out the study.



Read more: Plenty of sex gives men long lives! - The Times of India http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/life-style/relationships/man-woman/Plenty-of-sex-gives-men-long-lives/articleshow/6887734.cms#ixzz18o30S5hq
 
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Friday, December 17, 2010

Are u getting mad temporarily but regularly???? Understand anger ..first mail..


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Osho writes better but this time my thoughts . Now a days many corporates keep Course on Anger management. And have found it useful.

Anger can lead to : High BP
damage to property
damage to relationships ( leading to separation between partners/ brothers/spouse/ good staff leaving you etc )
In a fit of anger people have committed many crimes ( unwantingly and then repented) like throwing child out of train for seat / assaulting/ pushing and killing thru car on arguments about parking, jumping out of ..... hitting loved ones who either get severe injuries physical or mental etc etc.
) all out of anger),

This madness though temporary has to be controlled.
All those who get such bouts must see counselor instead of justifying there act of madness. No reason/ excuse  can make u mad unless u r one.It is bad behavior / loose act and is punishable in laws. Yet we do it. Why??
If we can not achieve anything with diplomacy/ persuasion / education then we can not achieve it thru fights.Unknowingly u may cause grievous injury to self or other person in fit of rage. The matter can go to police, court/ bosses/ samaj etc etc and may cost career, peace of mind, reputation etc etc . Instead of taking law in hand let us all ( who r in habit of getting uncontrollably angry ) think of reasons what makes us angry. Where lies the solution.And be reasonable to others.Our own demand/ expectation may be unreasonable and that wrong expectation may be giving us frustration and making us angry.If we ourselves are wrong ( full of wrong expectations) then we are craving for moon which will never be fulfilled. And Lo we r still angry on others for our unfulfilled demands.

Be reasonable. Be cool. Be understanding.have contentment and be happy.

Alok


 






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Sunday, November 28, 2010

Healthy sex life makes men live longer .....THE TELEGRAPH

Healthy sex life makes men live longer

A healthy sex life makes men live longer, according to Italian scientists - providing you are faithful to your partner.

 
Previous research has shown that testosterone is essential for health and wellbeing as well as the prevention of osteoporosis Photo: ALAMY

Italian medical researchers carried out a series of studies as part of the conference, and found that a healthy sex life means fewer cardiovascular problems for men.

The investigation was carried out by the Italian Society of Sexual Medicine who are holding their annual congress in the city of Modena.

Dr Emmanuele Jannini, coordinator of the research, said: "What was evident from the research was that men who had active sex lives and were faithful to their partners had fewer cardiovascular complaints and lived longer.

 

"Increased sexual activity produces more testosterone, which leads to less depression and a better cardiovascular performance which means an improved metabolism."

Dr Jannini said the research has been carried out by the University of Florence on 4,000 men and the study revealed that those who were unfaithful had a poor cardiovascular performance because they were "also coping with the increased stress of their infidelity."

She added that the study had shown a poor quality sex life could also lead to depression.

Dr Jannini added that an increased amount of testosterone produced during sex was good for men because it burned off excess sugars and reduced the risk of heart disease.

She added: "People who have diabetes especially benefit from a healthy sex life and an active sex life also helps avoid prostate problems for men."

Testosterone is the principal male sex hormone and is an anabolic steroid.

Previous research has shown that it is essential for health and wellbeing as well as the prevention of osteoporosis.

The conference also heard how too much time spent speaking on mobile telephones appears to "put sperm to sleep" and can pose a risk for male fertility.

According to the preliminary results of a study by Rome's La Sapienza University and the Santa Maria Goretti Hospital at Latina, south of the capital, "there is a correlation between cellphone use and a worsening in sperm mobility."

Andrea Lenzi, president of the Italian Society of Andrology and Sexual Medicine (SIAMS), said: "The waves appear to put the sperm to sleep.

"The data are, however, preliminary and we are verifying the presence of other factors: people who speak on their cellphones a lot are often more stressed or they smoke and drink more, and that can impact sperm quality."

The study, which examined sperm from men using mobile phones from a minimum of half an hour to a maximum of four hours a day.


 
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Be fit, be active, work out as...

Fitness fanatics 'have high sex drives'

Fitness fanatics really do havbhavane higher sex drives, according to scientists who say they have identified a link between exercise and personality.

They also tend to be more aggressive and socially dominant said Dr Peter Biro, an Australian academic.

He said their findings, which came from studying the relationship between behaviour and metabolic rate in a number of insects, birds and animals, gave weight to the popular stereotype of the athletic "jock" and the awkward "nerd".

Dr Biro said there was enough evidence from numerous studies to suggest that those that had a higher metabolism, and thus tended to exercise more, appeared to exhibit particular behaviour traits that often included a higher sex drive.

"Some of us are couch potatoes while others are drawn to sport and exercise," he said.

"We often associate the athletic 'jock' type or person with being aggressive and social, whereas the more sedentary 'nerd' often is seen as more socially awkward and submissive.

"These are generalisations, but most people would probably agree there is some truth to them."

Dr Biro, a senior lecturer at the University of New South Wales's Evolution and Ecology Research Centre, has written on the subject with Judy Stamps of the University of California, Davis, in a review article in the journal Trends in Ecology and Evolution.

The article concludes that there is now enough evidence to suggest a link between personality and the rate of metabolism – the chemical process that converts food into the energy that fuels the body.

He explained: "Animals in captivity often engage in energetically demanding behaviour when they have unlimited food available.

"Mice spend considerable time on running wheels, for example, and other animals often pace back and forth in zoo enclosures. Given they don't need to move about in search of food as they would in nature, we might ask why they are apparently 'exercising.'

"Recent research suggests that this behaviour might be related to an individual's capacity to generate energy - its 'metabolic capacity'."

He continued: "Male crickets with sex on their mind tend to call to attract mates more and have higher metabolism than those with slower metabolism.

Metabolism and aggression are also linked. For example, it has been shown that in several species of fish and birds, individuals with high metabolism tend to be more aggressive and dominant over those with slow metabolism.

Chris Jones, head of physiology at Nuffield Health, said although there was no evidence of a direct link between exercise and sex drive, there was a link between doing regular exercise and levels of testosterone and adrenalin.

"There is evidence that enhanced testosterone and adrenalin in men and women does enhance libido."

He added: "What's particularly interesting is that exercise also seems to have an effect on stopping the problems that lead to a decrease in libido."

Sapan Sehgal, 27, an instructor at London Fields Fitness Studios, agreed there was a link between exercise and sex drive.

"If you exercise regularly you are fitter, healthier and have more confidence to approach the opposite sex," he said.

"Your hormone levels are also increased."


 
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Tuesday, November 9, 2010

Low testosterone levels lead to Alzheimer’s

Older men with low levels of the male sex hormone, testosterone, are more prone to Alzheimer's disease, revealed a new study.

"Having low testosterone may make you more vulnerable to Alzheimer's disease. The take-home message is we should pay more attention to low testosterone, particularly in people who have memory problems or other signs of cognitive impairment," said Dr. John E. Morley, director of the division of geriatric medicine at Saint Louis University and a study co-investigator.

Led by Dr. Leung-Wing Chu, who is chief of the division of geriatric medicine at Queen Mary Hospital at the University of Hong Kong, researchers studied 153 Chinese men who were recruited from social centers.

They were at least 55 years and older, lived in the community and didn't have dementia.

Of those men, 47 had mild cognitive impairment - or problems with clear thinking and memory loss.

Within a year, 10 men who all were part of the cognitively impaired group developed probable Alzheimer's disease.

These men also had low testosterone in their body tissues; elevated levels of the ApoE 4 (apolipoprotein E) protein, which is correlated with a higher risk of Alzheimer's disease; and high blood pressure.

"It's a very exciting study because we've shown that a low level of testosterone is one of the risk factors for Alzheimer's disease," said Morley.

The findings corroborate findings in previous studies of older Caucasian men that show low testosterone is associated with impaired thinking and Alzheimer's disease.

They suggest that testosterone may have a protective value against Alzheimer's disease.

The next step, Morley said, is to conduct a large-scale study that investigates the use of testosterone in preventing Alzheimer's disease.

The researchers encourage studying the effectiveness of testosterone replacement in older men who have both mild memory problems and low testosterone in staving off Alzheimer's disease.

The study was published in the Journal of Alzheimer''s Disease.

Read more: Low testosterone levels lead to Alzheimer's - The Times of India http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/life-style/health-fitness/health/Low-testosterone-levels-lead-to-Alzheimers/articleshow/6697279.cms#ixzz14pknWBjb
 
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Friday, October 29, 2010

For heart patients

Sex and Heart :  by Dr Piyush Jain  Doctor NDTV....

 

Sexual activity is a normal human instinct, which protects men and women against feelings of isolation. It offers them an opportunity to be free of mental stress and tension by gestures such as touching, hugging, caressing and fantasy. Intercourse is the ultimate expression of sexuality.

Heart patients and their spouses frequently perceive sexual intimacy as stressful or even life threatening. Their fears and doubts are often not clarified by physicians and other health care providers, who may also feel inhibited while discussing sexual matters with their patients. Majority of the patients, therefore receive little or no instructions about resuming sex after a heart attack or heart surgery. Those who are instructed frequently don't receive adequate information. Often the spouse is excluded from counselling. Without proper guidance, both patient and spouse rely on their own knowledge, myths and misconception to cope up with their unfounded fears of sexual inadequacy, impotence and death during intercourse.

Sexual problems in heart disease

Male heart patients frequently report a reduction in frequency and satisfaction of intercourse after heart attack or heart surgery. Sexual desire may decrease, leading to inhibition of feelings and failure of erection. Some men also experience premature ejaculation. Yet, such problems do occur in as many as 40% of happily married normal couples too. A strong emotional relationship between spouses lessens the occurrence of sexual dissatisfaction after a heart attack. Relatively few studies have been carried out regarding sexual activities of female patients with heart disease.

Psychological basis of sexual problems

Two primary psychological reactions interfere with resumption of normal sex after a heart attack:

  1. Anxiety: Anxiety results from fear of angina or recurrence of heart attack during sexual intercourse. These fears are frequently based on ignorance about physical demands of sexual activity, when to resume sex and ways to prevent to treat the symptoms. Another contributory factor is patient's perceived change in body image, leading to a feeling of being less of a man or a woman.
  2. Depression: After a heart attack, many people experience a moderate to severe depression. It prevents the patient from resuming normal; emotional ties with the spouse and may also lead to a decrease in libido. Occasionally, it may cause impotence.
Spouses' responses Forced dependency in hospital setting during a heart attack or surgery may lead to erosion of feeling of self worth and sexual attractiveness for a while. During this time, the spouse can provide much needed support. In reality, many spouses themselves undergo considerable psychological trauma during this period. They wish to reassure their spouse of their love and affection, yet feat the worst. This naturally comes in way of resuming normal sex. Lack of communication or covert communication only helps to reinforce the anxiety of both the partners. The matters may be complicated when the spouse also begins to grudge his/her continued responsibility.

Physical effort of sexual intercourse with spouse is comparable to climbing a flight of stairs or walking briskly. Therefore, most of the people should be able to return to their previous level of sexual activity after recovering from a heart attack or CABG. Here are some practical tips to regain a normal sex life.

  • Communication with your spouse This is the first and most important step in resuming a normal relationship. Heart attack or major heart surgery is a stressful experience for both the partners. Recuperation after home coming is the right time to pick up the threads of life once again. An open discussion about apprehensions and anticipations may be more important than the act of sexual intercourse itself at this stage.
  • Getting started Cuddling for a while without worrying about performance is desirable. Hugging, touching and caressing without penetrative sex and orgasm require very little energy. These may be resumed soon after reaching home. An affectionate gesture this time is good way to express your love before moving on to sexual intercourse.
  • Time to resume sexual intercourse Sexual intercourse is like any other physical activity. A general rule of the thumb is that sex may be resumed when it is possible to climb 1 0r 2 flights to stairs with angina or breathlessness. This generally means 4-6 weeks following an uncomplicated heart attack, and a little later after heart surgery.
  • The environment Sexual intercourse should be resumed in familiar surroundings, in a relaxed and restful environment. Room temperature should be comfortable. Extreme temperatures place more stress on the heart.
  • Don't skip the foreplay While it is never a good idea to cut short the foreplay, it is especially important during convalescence. Besides enhancing enjoyment, foreplay also allows a gradual rise in heart rate, preparing for sex in the same way as warm up stretching exercises prepare for aerobic training.
  • Desirable positions Whatever the position adopted during sexual intercourse, it should be comfortable and permit free breathing. It was previously thought that when the patient was in bottom or lies side to side rather than the top, the rise in blood pressure during intercourse is less. Little isometric effort is involved in these positions. What should be avoided is supporting the body on hands, when on top.
  • Things to avoid Digestion of food increases heart rate for a while. Therefore, sexual intercourse should be avoided for 2 hours after a heavy meal to minimise strain on heart. Sex should be avoided when either of the partners is extremely tired, tense, angry or under time pressure.
When sexual intercourse is not advisable If sexual intercourse precipitates severe angina or breathlessness on more than 1 occasion, or when even modest physical exertion precipitates irregular or missed heart beats or ECG changes, it is desirable to resume sexual intercourse after optimization of medical therapy.

Causes of sexual problems in heart disease

  • Anxiety
  • Depression
  • Preexisting sexual problem
  • Concomitant stroke during acute heart ailment or heart surgery
  • Atherosclerosis of aorta or its branches supplying blood to penis
  • Physical deconditioning
  • Alcohol and tobacco abuse
  • Some therapeutic drugs
Sometimes sexual problems encountered in heart disease are caused or aggravated by certain medicines. Some medicines known to cause sexual difficulties are spironolactone, beta blockers, thiazide diuretics, statins, anti-depressants and sedatives and anti-anxiety drugs. Personal physician is the best guide to assess whether particular medicine is responsible for sexual problems. If identifies with reasonable certainty, the offending medicine may be withdrawn. When a medicine is absolutely essential, sex may be scheduled when blood levels of the problem medication are low, that is, about 6-8 hours after dose of the medicine.

Conclusion

Sexual intercourse after a heart attack is not a risky Endeavour. To the contrary, it is normal, also to be desirable and healthy provided it is undertaken with a familiar partner. If someone can walk on a treadmill, climb 2 flights of stairs at a good pace without breathlessness, palpitations or chest pain, his physical condition is good enough to resume normal sex.
 

 

Sunday, October 24, 2010

7 must-know sex secrets

Guys, here's your chance to know the seven sex secrets women wish their partner knew



A good talk is a great aphrodisiac

Many women find talk a great turn-on. For them, talking and feeling loved are very important. Good conversation during walks or while the couple is relaxing can be a great aphrodisiac. A man could tell his woman how much he loves her, which acts as a reassurance that he is with her mentally during those intimate moments.



Many women are anxious about their looks

For a couple that has been together for long, sometimes it is natural that women may feel that their partner may find them less alluring. Because of this some women undress only under the cover of darkness. Caring men can sense such anxieties. There is no need to lie and say she's gorgeous if she isn't, nor is there a need to say that she is not attractive anymore. One can always appreciate and praise what you do find attractive.



For a woman sex isn't separate from rest of her life

On the other hand, men tend to compartmentalise, feeling that stressful aspects of life can be parked mentally and separated from sexual activity. Women need good feelings and experiences during the day to have satisfying sex. How her lover treats her out of bed, greatly influences her response in bed. Inattentiveness, harsh language, rude tones, hurtful words, and criticism can make it difficult for a woman to get involved, feel enthusiastic and be passionate during sex.



An orgasm is not a necessity

Many men feel that a good lover is one who can bring his woman to climactic sexual culmination. It is great to have such moments, but aren't always essential. Many women feel pressure from partners and even from themselves to reach an orgasm. Sometimes instead of having orgasms, women prefer to engage in just foreplay.



Sex need not be a serious act

Playfulness is a great quality. Many men are far too serious about sex. They forget to laugh, be romantically mischievous, have fun. Playfulness and light-heartedness can make intimate moments enjoyable and relaxing. This takes performance pressure off from both partners.



Women cherish non-sexual touching and tenderness

Women love romance, cuddling, hand-holding and kissing. But many women complain that their men never do this except during foreplay. A woman should make her man realise the joy of touching. As you give him a relaxing massage and stroke his face and hair tenderly, he starts experiencing the joy of this kind of non-sexual touching. Tell your man what makes you feel loved.



Warm attention after sex is important

A woman's need for tender moments goes beyond the actual lovemaking. Some women complain that men fall asleep immediately after the act. It is true that when a man is having sex, his endorphin level is very high. Almost immediately after ejaculation, he goes through a refractory phase where he loses his erection and all his systems gear down. In females this phase happens gradually. However, if you don't like him falling asleep immediately, tell him without putting him down. Alternatively, let him sleep in your arms for a few minutes and gently wake him up afterwards.



(Dr Rajan B Bhonsle, consultant in sexual medicine and counselor)







Read more: 7 must-know sex secrets - The Times of India http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/Life-Style-Relationships-Man-Woman/7-must-know-sex-secrets/articleshow/6780851.cms#ixzz13I1fuAZk